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The modern arranged relationship and marriage are different from traditional ones insofar as they take power away from the parents and let the two people who are romantically involved have all the power in making all the arrangements. This is a very important difference because younger generations increasingly feel confident about taking charge of their own fate. Hmm, and why not? Younger generations receive better education and are privy to more information and enlightenment, as a whole, than older generations before them. Many younger people are informed and mature enough to make their own decisions earlier in life and without much meddling, as long as they are serious, educated and know what they want.
Having said that, let us look at what the arranged part consists of in this day and age. First, haha, let us look at sexual compatibility. I like the Rick and Morty episode where Morty says that a guy and a girl who are together should make Pornhub accounts because it optimizes algorithms for them to give them more personalized content and also lets them create playlists, which in turn allows a couple to look at each other kinks and connect sexually way more than ever before. This, dearest readers, is a recipe for making relationships work better. Next, we have finances. A couple can make arrangements based on an honest disclosure of each person's financial situation and this allows them to truly know what they can and cannot achieve financially in the long and short term. This is next level honest and feels liberating. Finally, a modern arrangement also allows couple to be honest about their career goals and how much free time they will or will not have, how erratic or not their schedules may be, and what the ultimate payoff might be as well. This lets each person either embrace or reject the relationship before things evolve in a negative way. You get to know what is waiting for you and you get to decide whether it will work for you or not. This is truly, simply amazing.
I hear and read, time and again, that this kind of arranged relationship or marriage does not happen and people stay together for a long time without ever talking about these things and making arrangements best on life facts. This, dearest readers, may spell disaster for many couples out there. Instead, it may seem smarter to open up to your partner sooner or later, demand the same, make arrangements because by doing that you may go together further than any other way. Let me know what you think :)